maio 18, 2004

Response to "Monday in Massachusetts"

Over on Semper Ubi Sub Ubi there is a post on the potential response of America and of the church to the Massachusetts ruling that has legalized same-sex marriage. It's an overall conservative Christian piece of writing, but I'm going to disagree with it. Consequently, I need to establish some identifying marks to ground my own perspective: I profess Christ; I believe, in accordance with scripture, that homosexuality is a sin; I am opposed to recent events in both the Episcopalian and the United Methodist Churches; I am an American.

How will America react? It's hard to tell. My primary reaction, as an American, has nothing to do with the morality of same-sex marriage. I am more interested in whether or not the Massachusetts state constitution was correctly interpreted and, if not, whether this was an honest misreading or a case of judicial activism. The same problem would exist if the situation were reversed; that is, if an activist judge struck down a law allowing for same-sex marriage. A nation, especially one structured as is ours, can survive laws that allow for immorality much longer than it can survive ignoring the rule of law.

Related to this last point is the distinction that should be made between laws that allow for immorality and the actual practice thereof. I do not see this event as "a serious tear in the fabric of society." That there is a serious problem in society, I will allow. Nevertheless, the legalization of same sex-marriage is not, in this case, the tear. It is, rather, the light exposing the tear. Setting aside the issue of whether this particular ruling was constitutionally viable, the problem is not that the state has decided to legalize same-sex marriage. It is that, upon the effective decriminalization of all but non-consensual sex, society confused the state's tacit confession that it was not equipped to equitably punish this sort of thing with the declaration that it was all okay.

The author, Todd Pedlar, writes that he finds himself "incensed at those who profess Christ but claim that somehow gays and lesbians deserve all the civil benefits of marriage..." Implicit here is the notion that those who think so are acting in contradiction to their profession. I do not believe that this has been established. It would first need to be demonstrated that these benefits are inherently the right of married [heterosexual] couples. It is not enough to point out that they currently enjoy them. If there is in marriage, properly defined, a right to civil benefits, then it is wrong to argue that homosexual couples have this same right. However, I find nowhere in the institution of marriage an entitlement to tax breaks and healthcare. And since this is the case, then giving such benefits to anyone else could not possibly harm marriage. I am not opposed to these benefits for married couples, but I don't see why they should be connected to marriage as such. It makes more sense to me to reward these benefits solely on the basis of close financial interdependence.

Finally, I disagree with the assessment of the church- that it has lost "the will to speak out when things are so obviously wrong." I am far more concerned with a church that has become so caught up in society and the affairs of state that it neglects to speak up when things are so obviously right. The church does not exist to ensure a moral America. It is here to declare the gospel. It is the bride of Christ; its purpose is the glory of the groom. It is not called to spend its time saying to the world, "Live like this." Nothing could be more shallow. The church's message is, "The Bridegroom is coming; repent, and join us at the wedding feast."

Posted by kcourter at maio 18, 2004 09:42 PM | TrackBack
Comments

Thank you for speaking on this issue. I tried to post on the Semper blog but it did not allow me. I found that to be more irritating than the blog itself.

I do not follow Christ at this point in my life. However I do read about Christ and religion as much as I possibly can. I would like to be educated on whatever I decide to believe in.

I couldn't agree more with your last paragraph. I'm here for myself and I will never try and make someone else believe what I think is right in this world. I have a hard time believing anything if it's shoved down my throat. It makes me want to turn away from it. Now that I am finally at a point in my life where I can make my own decisions, religion is a serious factor in my thought process. I'm not letting anyone feed it to me. I am taking bites at my own pace.

I'm not here to offend anyone. I had this awful feeling after reading the Semper blog and I needed to get it out. I tried and I was told it wasn't going to be posted because of the content. I didn't say anything bad. I didn't fully disagree with him either. I found that to be very bias when he won't let others share their opinions. Don't post something so controversial unless you are ready for the other side.

Thank you again for this post.

Take care,

Cary

Posted by: klockwork at maio 19, 2004 07:33 AM

Cary -

In defense of Semper, I do not know the exact details of what happened, but if you got an immediate message saying you couldn't post, then it is more likely that the blacklisting software that Chattablogs runs to prevent comment spam made a mistake and accidentally prevented you from posting than it is that the author specifically censored you.

It is rare that the blacklisting software gets a false positive. Given the nature of the subject, however (we get hit by a lot of comment spam for homosexual pornography), it is likely that your comment was misinterpreted by the software.

Posted by: maphet at maio 19, 2004 08:49 AM

Thank you for clearing that up. I was confused and since it said "I am blocking this post" or whatever, I can't remember exact words, I assumed it was the author. I apologize Semper.

Posted by: klockwork at maio 19, 2004 09:10 AM

Cary,

I can appreciate the desire to be educated in your beliefs and encourage you to keep studying. I also understand your feelings against having a belief shoved down your throat. Unfortunately however, there will always be Christians all too willing to do this. If you ever do reach the conclusion that Christ really is the only way, please don't let this fact stop you from believing.

I also want to clear up what I said just in case there is some misunderstanding. You wrote, "I will never try and make someone else believe what I think is right in this world." I know what you mean here and agree, especially if the idea is on forcing someone against his will. But there is another side to this in which the church, in its call to present the gospel, is expected to declare the requirements for all those who would follow Christ, and to declare the consequences for all those who do not. The word "repent" is loaded. We present the gospel in its fulness. It is then up to the Holy Spirit to work faith and repentance in those who hear. The problem with an approach that is nothing more than a command to "do this" is that we could probably get people to obey, but never to believe. And what good is obedience in the absence of Christ?

Posted by: Kevin at maio 21, 2004 01:35 AM
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