So what is the determining point between justification and lonliness?
Is the realization of lonliness being distinct from a need of purpose enough?
To justify oneself as being a solitary being, all on your own
to make yourself happy
i feel that lonliness is just a part of the realization
that some perfer companionship over solitude.
Though perhaps the ideal
is a balance of both.

I think that is something that is different for each person encountered.
whether it is friendships, a sisterhood, or relationship.
Changing one another does not occur.
Changing attitude is controlled by you.