1. loves God
2. love for family (incl. loves children and willing to adopt)
3. attitude of service
4. conversational ability, laughs easily
5. ability to 'do' hospitality
6. individuality/originality/creativity/personal style
7. loves my family
8. values and works at friendships
9. will let me read, will let me go on missions trips
10. physical exercise, care for body, willing to do outdoors stuff