November 04, 2003

Etiquette Question

Is it rude to ask someone who they're going to vote for? I can think of some circumstances in which it would be inappropriate, but I was told yesterday that it is always rude to ask anyone about their political views. Is that true? Not that I go around asking people who they're voting for, but I've done it before and I want to know if people walked away from me thinking I was really nosy.

Posted by christin at November 4, 2003 09:38 AM | TrackBack
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I don't think it's rude to ask someone who they are voting for (or what they think about a certain issue), I mean if you are ashamed to tell people that you support a candidate/ammendment/ cause/whatever then why do you support it at all.

Posted by: Angela at November 4, 2003 10:03 AM

I agree. Its not like asking someone to express their views would put them under serious danger. Now asking someone if they were supportive of Saddam's regime knowing that they were not(during the time of his reign that it is)might cross over into "rude" after I saw those videos of his regime abusing political offenders. Ouch!

Posted by: svenska at November 4, 2003 10:16 AM

It amazes me that people would think it rude to ask what their political views or who they may be voting for. But then again, I am one of those who "violates" all the so-called etiquette rules by talking about religion, politics, and sports with people!

Posted by: tom at November 4, 2003 11:43 AM

I've always held the view that it was sorta rude to ask someone that question unless you know them well - like a friend, parent, etc. It doesn't bother me, though, when I'm asked that.

Posted by: andy at November 4, 2003 02:52 PM

It may well be, I remember my grandmother telling me it wasn't polite to ask people about their politics when I was growing up. I never really thought about that until I read this question. Perhaps it's considered poor behavior, but then so is starting to eat with the wrong fork....

Posted by: SonofThunder at November 4, 2003 03:41 PM

is it impolite to criticize people's political views? yes, because the intent should be to make people uncomfortable. we worship comfortability in a time when there is much that should be bothering us. when people are uncomfortable they have to change. I think we'd agree change is good. I don't vote. I want change. when a handful of stale party followers in places far away are electing leaders who will force their agenda on us, it will be time to stand up and say no. it's impolite to be a revolutionary, but that is in the job description. anyway, good ole socrates was that way and he was killed. Jesus wasn't exactly polite to the political elite either. He was killed too. I guess it is good for revolutionaries to be killed. socrates so a stupid-head would shut up. Jesus so we would be saved. I'd much rather be saved than to have the agenda of some slippery modern-day socrates shoved down my throat and imprison me. Ok and I should have been writing all of this in the essay that is due tomorrow. Maybe this is just a warm-up...

Posted by: Gray at November 9, 2003 11:01 PM

No, but it is very rude to ask whether it's rude to ask people about their political views. The nerve of you!

Posted by: scott cunningham at November 17, 2003 08:30 PM
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